One Christmas, this woman and her family were homeless. But CATCH helped them escape | Opinion

The chill of the first night I spent alone in my car lingers with me. I can still see that Cassidy — homeless, uncertain, weary — staring back at me in the rearview mirror. Christmas just ended, typically full of warmth and family, but for me, it marked the beginning of my journey through homelessness — constantly asking myself: “How did I end up here?”

There is no short answer. Each story of homelessness is as unique as the individuals it affects. Reflecting back on my own journey, I now understand that my homelessness stemmed from a mix of factors — a distressing lack of family support, the sudden loss of my job, and the constant threat of an abusive partner who took pleasure in my fear.

I spent my sleepless nights desperately looking for help when I found CATCH. Was it possible that an organization that embodied so much hope was real?

CATCH is committed to providing longterm housing and resources in the interim, for Treasure Valley families and individuals tossed into the chaos of homelessness. I entered my name on the waitlist not knowing their phone call would change my life.

When I answered, I had been homeless for seven months. It was a sweltering summer day, and just the night before the abusive man in my life, who I was trying desperately to escape, got his hands on a gun. When he waved at me, it felt as if my life was over.

CATCH offered me a lifeline, a chance to change my story. They met me where I was at, offering comfort, support to start over, and the push to stand on my own again.

Stepping into our new home meant stepping into the promise of a better life. We still live in that apartment today. The car where I once slept is gone. My children fill this home with laughter and joy. My son, at nine years old, is a gentle soul whose kindness spreads warmth everywhere he goes. My little girl, three years old and full of energy, finds joy in every playful moment.

Now when I drive past the spots where I used to park for the night, I can barely believe that was my reality. It’s a reminder of a past chapter that taught me the invaluable difference between a place to rest and a place to call home.

There are so many myths about homelessness. Having lived through it, I urge you to remember that behind every case is a person with a complex story who deserves compassion. It is those who held out their hand, not those who looked the other way, that supported me in rebuilding my life.

Today, the old Cassidy looking back at me in the rearview mirror — exhausted, defeated, beaten down – has evolved. I have earned an associate’s degree and am on the path to a bachelor’s.

My story is not unique. It is a testament to the transformation that is possible.

I hope my story is one that inspires you to support the life-changing work of local organizations like CATCH. It was Christmas time that I became homeless nearly four years ago, and this holiday season CATCH is calling on our community to help end homelessness for 22 more families through their Avenues for Hope campaign.

Please join me in giving what you can. Every donation matters and will make a tangible difference. Together, our care and generosity will change lives.

My family is living proof.

This story was originally published December 26, 2023 at 4:00 AM.