Many of our virtues are having a rough go of it these days. Patience has been battered by the Internets lightning-quick pace, and reality television and Facebook have largely eviscerated humility.
Also struggling: honesty.
There are many virtues important in the workplace, but Im on record as placing honesty at or near the top. So its particularly dispiriting to see honesty and trustworthiness go widely disregarded, particularly at the highest levels of government.
On Aug. 12, the White House released a memo calling for the creation of a group to review the countrys surveillance programs. That was in response to leaks showing that the National Security Administration has been snooping on Americans more than previously believed.
In that memo, President Obama writes that all of the groups findings will come to him through the national intelligence director. That would be James Clapper, who is better known as the guy who lied to Congress about whether Americans are being spied on.
To be clear, Clapper was asked in March whether the NSA collects any type of data at all on millions or hundreds of millions of Americans. He said, No, and then added that data might be collected inadvertently but not willingly.
That is what we in the honesty business would call a lie. And now the man who discredited himself is the conduit through which this presumably important review will be delivered to the president.
Thanks to this ham-handed decision, we have another high-profile example of dishonesty not being punished and trustworthiness being degraded. And sadly, this behavior trickles down.
There is a prevailing cultural sentiment that lying is OK the fact that everyone is doing it and that its necessary to get ahead, said Nicholas Pearce, a clinical assistant professor of management and organizations at Northwestern University. The absence of honesty and integrity can have particularly paralyzing effects on individuals, teams and organizations, and even society.
Michael Josephson, founder and president of the Josephson Institute of Ethics in Los Angeles, said there are dozens of examples of high-profile lies in business and in politics that have gone virtually unpunished.
Were learning more in this society to operate without trust, he said. Were skeptical of everything, and we assume people are lying about things. When you have a supervisor that you can completely trust, you have a different kind of relationship than if you have someone whos going to say whats expedient. Its a sad thing that we have to be skeptical.
Leaders have to tread carefully around certain topics, but that can be done without lying or even being particularly evasive. Trust people to understand that not everything can be out in the open, and theres a good chance theyll respect that.
I tell leaders that its easier to maintain their integrity 100 percent of the time than it is to maintain their integrity 99 percent of the time, Pearce said. A leaders capacity to be effective relies heavily on their social capital. Leadership is a relational license to exert influence
Honesty is a concept thats reasonable, right and pragmatic. And if the people running our country dont want to set that example for us, perhaps its up to us to set an example for them.